Friends enjoying experiences together

GO PLAY · GO CONNECT · GOTOMO

Making friends, finally made easy.

Tomo = friends 🤝

Gotomo matches you into small groups of 5–8 like-minded people for curated real-life experiences — pickleball, dinners, trivia nights and more. Pick what you love, show up, and leave with new friends.

100+

events held

500+

tomos made

4.9+ ⭐

avg event rating

Maggie

It's great to meet such wonderful people and feel such good vibes! At our age, we don't get out much to meet new people. Gotomo really helps us connect with others.

#WomensDinners #DessertsAndChitChats

Maggie

🇸🇬 Singaporean

Jacob

From strangers to tomos. First time ever I tried opening up in a group and it was totally an "ice breaking experience".

#TriviaNights #FifaNights

Jacob

🇮🇳 Indian

Yuta

I was nervous about living overseas for the first time, but I quickly made an important friend (Tomo)!

#PickleBall

Yuta

🇯🇵 Japanese

EXPERIENCES YOU'LL LOVE

Real connections. Real fun.

and more!
Pickleball

Pickleball

Hit the court, break the ice.

Padel

Padel

Smash, laugh, repeat.

Walks & Hikes

Walks & Hikes

Good views, better company.

Trivia Night

Trivia Night

Smart moves, silly banter.

Board Games

Board Games

Roll dice, make memories.

Women's Dinners

Women's Dinners

Great food, even better vibes.

Vibe. Play.
Tomos. Repeat.

Pick an activity you love. Meet people you'll vibe with. Leave with actual friends.

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Find your tomo

Quick personality quiz (no, ChatGPT didn't write it). We match you with people you'll actually vibe with.

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Pick your play

See upcoming experiences — Dinner & Live Jazz, Bowling & Bites, nature walks, and more. Pick what excites you.

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Meet your tomos

Show up to the venue. Meet 5–8 awesome humans matched to your vibe. Leave with actual friends.

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Keep the momentum

Loved it? Book your next experience. Your crew grows with every event. Strangers today, tomos tomorrow.

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Why people
love this

We fixed everything wrong with making friends as an adult. No swiping required.

100% Human-Powered

No AI chatbots. No algorithms pretending to be your friend. Just real, breathing humans who laugh at bad jokes.

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Squad of 6

Big enough for variety. Small enough for real talk. No one gets lost in the group chat.

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Zero dating pressure

Not a dating app. Your mom can stop asking. Just genuine friendships. Show up as yourself.

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Know before you go

Every event is listed upfront — activity, date, and area. The exact venue? Revealed closer to the date for that little spark of excitement.

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All levels welcome

Never played pickleball? Can't box? Trip over flat surfaces? Perfect. Every event is designed for first-timers.

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Verified vibes only

Every member verified by actual humans (not bots). Trusted venues. No catfish allowed.

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Got questions?
We've got answers

Everything you need to know before your first Gotomo experience.

Still have questions? Reach out to us →

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Your tomos are
waiting for you

Stop doom-scrolling. Start actually living. Meet your next favorite person over something fun.

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